The Real Reason We Don’t Get Along - Niki and Gabi

17. jun. 2020
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episode 1: "creep in the club"
episode 2: "he won't pay attention to me"
episode 3: "the problem is you"
episode 4: "harassed by strangers"
episode 5: "getting sent home"
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We’re Niki and Gabi! We hope you enjoyed our honest video. We’re twin sisters who are different with opposite fashion and styles, but we come together to make videos like challenges, fashion trends, spring 2020, stuck at home, at home videos, celebrities, tricking our followers, DIY outfits, making outfits, sister vs sister, photoshoot challenges, 24 hour challenges, DIY, swaps, shopping challenges, 24 hour challenges, diy, style, beauty, lifestyle, fashion, comedy, types of girls, music, and more!

  • I feel so bad for niki she’s a human too gabi’s so selfish for this. gabi has her life together when niki is working around her time and giving up on life because of gabi.

    naila partridgenaila partridgePred 8 urami
  • I seen how that feels my brother and sister are twins and even tho they are not the same gender I get it. A lot more then they do I try to keep them as close as possible even if that means I have to be the bad guy

    janelle murrelljanelle murrellPred 10 urami
  • guys i understand how gabi could be in the wrong BUT just imagine how you went onto a videos comments and saw this they made tis video to show us that everyone has to go through this with certain people my point is that gabi did stuff and so did nikki so ls stop going at JUST Gabi if you have nothing nice to say about one of them if you dint see the video they made they feel bad that in every comment section we always pick one of them so STOP

    Prissha VirupatchanPrissha VirupatchanPred 17 urami
  • I would not want to be a twin

    Faith TownsendFaith TownsendPred 20 urami
  • I watch Gabi's vlogs and really love them, but listening to this makes me see how hurt Niki is... If my sister befriended my enemies I would feel incredibly betrayed. I understand that Gabi was also trying to "find herself" and this party crew was where she was searching, but it can be hurtful if her sister had only negative experiences with them.

    I.A.I.A.Pred 23 urami
  • Its ok ❤

    Kari AhnfeldtKari AhnfeldtPred dnevom
  • I cried when they stared crying🤣😭

    Belle Billy goatBelle Billy goatPred dnevom
  • gabby is fucked up for that college shit. but this video is so raw good for them

    12blahbaby12blahbabyPred dnevom
  • Gabi is a bitch period point blank niki or gabby couldn’t even talk because she was so concerned with her side of the story she’s mad because her sister wants to live her life like wtf

    Tyara Mcclain MarieTyara Mcclain MariePred dnevom
  • Your running their relationship if you are liking one twin and saying how bad one is verses the other, comments like Gabi is being a jerk, or Nicki is being a jerk is so unhealthy saying with these girls, they will always love each other please stop being a toxic follower and talking about how one twin is better than the other please, THEY READ THESE COMENTS, PLEASE REMEBER THEIR BOTH PEOPLE TOO!🥰💫💛💫

    Zoey ClaireZoey ClairePred 2 dnevi
  • nikis intentions were so pure ....

    cas tedescocas tedescoPred 2 dnevi
  • I don’t understand how gabi doesn’t get that Niki is hurt because she befriend girls who didn’t like here she picked mean girls over her sister and she expects Niki to be ok with that. This is so sad 😔 when niki said “home girl really doesn’t understand” that was so sad! Bottom line niki is a people pleaser and gabi is used to that and now that the people pleasing it getting to her and really boiling over neither know how to respond and that is normal and it’s ok and the fact that they did this shows they want to grow!

    OMGiGiOMGiGiPred 2 dnevi
  • Did anyone see where gabbie's phone was......

    Devarakonda ShakeenaDevarakonda ShakeenaPred 2 dnevi
  • Gabi looks hella weird

    Karen LinaresKaren LinaresPred 3 dnevi
  • When i first time watch one of your video i really noticed something was off like they’re twins but they have opposite vibes and feelings idk it’s like idk how to explain it but there is literally something off and i can notice nikki is hurt and as i watch more videos of them nikki is really hurt and nikki buys the best for gabi and when gabi buys something for nikki, she only get not that best thing for nikki but nikki actually loves everything she gives to her but i guess gabi knows what nikki really wants and buys it for her and maybe same time save some money while buying stuffs for their future expenses idk i’ve only been watching them form a week idk them that much

    Jem inspires YouJem inspires YouPred 3 dnevi
  • Nikki probably feels awful because her own sister doesn’t like her face.

    Abby LeitzenAbby LeitzenPred 4 dnevi
  • How much did gabbie have to pay them for this

    Bows n' TiesBows n' TiesPred 4 dnevi
  • so they actually seeing a therapist or what?

    Lisa CardoneLisa CardonePred 4 dnevi
  • Gabi reminds me of how toxic my sister is (1 year apart) and can never see anything more than people trying to come after her for being "better" when it truly isn't about that, it's about being entitled thinking the way you do and Gabi is mad that now that she wants to do more Niki is pulling away as she should since she spent so much time holding this channel up for the BOTH of them. If Gabi was not wanting to deal with the channel when she wanted to live her life then her ass shouldn't have started it to begin with or left soon after. This is why I can not see or speak to my sister because it's like talking to a brick wall. Gabi get over yourself.

    Mikaela MarroquinMikaela MarroquinPred 4 dnevi
  • I feel the relationship went sour once gabbie started doing things to completely change her face.. if I shared a face with someone and they started changing it, it would hurt me

    lexii moreinalexii moreinaPred 5 dnevi
  • I consider myself an objective third party since I don’t really care for them or like one twin over the other. That being said Gabbi is so full of it. She is self centered, refuses to take any responsibility for past OR present mistakes, and expects everyone else to cater to her. She won’t acknowledge anything she has done to hurt Niki but still expects her to be there for her. From what I’ve seen Niki owns her mistakes, ACTUALLY defends Gabbi, and everything she’s saying is being ignored. There’s so much that Niki talked about that they didn’t address at all. It was all about omg Gabbi don’t worry Niki still loves Like yeah don’t put one twin down over the other but like there’s so much hypocritical bs. They seriously need to go to therapy. Niki isn’t blameless but Gabbi needs to get it together.

    sera rosesera rosePred 5 dnevi
  • This is literally me and my friend me and my friend would always fight them my other friend would fix it all

    ItzelliebellyItzelliebellyPred 5 dnevi
  • Gabi is fr the worst 😩 The twin.

    K MMK MMPred 5 dnevi
  • I noticed that people are still choosing sides evan after they said don't. They have their reasons of what they did for their "FANS" to put one twin down and the other one up is discussing and they should stop choosing one or the other.

    Tina WalkerTina WalkerPred 6 dnevi
  • Everyone is on Gabi's case and I have half and half feelings on it.I understand why Niki might feel the way she feels now but I dont think its appropriate she takes her self esteem issues on Gabi.I know it does come off cocky the way Gabi speaks but if you listen she feels as if she has to be down in the dumps about herself to make her sister feel good.It also isnt fair that Niki is talking about how Gabi use t ok care more about her personal life than the yt channel which Niki has stated that Gabi didnt really want to do the channel back then and then on you of that never considered any of Gabi's ideas.You cant want sb to do something they dont want to do then not let them give their input.If you really pay attention to them and this interview Niki is the one that comes off as arrogant and selfish.

    Omari TaylorOmari TaylorPred 6 dnevi
  • They both look so different from when I would watch them, don’t even look like twins

    Malvina SiwakMalvina SiwakPred 6 dnevi
  • “I was 25 at 18” I can’t wait til you watch that back at 25 and see how silly it sounds. You’re gonna be just as confused at 25 as you are now girl that’s what youth is for embrace it!

    Kelsey BlalockKelsey BlalockPred 6 dnevi
  • So I’m not a therapist but I know a narcissist when I see one 😳

    Crystal CentenoCrystal CentenoPred 7 dnevi
  • get through it girl pls i have been through it to.

    Samantha SimmonsSamantha SimmonsPred 7 dnevi
  • gabbi is so self-centered, I can’t stand it

    Blind StarsBlind StarsPred 7 dnevi
  • When they were sitting on the couch together and Niki was explaining how Gabi was going out with people who didn’t like her it literally made me tear up. I can’t imagine how painful it’d be to be sitting home with you mum while your twin is out with people who don’t like you

    Loey FletcherLoey FletcherPred 7 dnevi
  • Hope u two it gets better between you two and u guys can grow together better❤❤❤

    Shawriya #vi4life K.Shawriya #vi4life K.Pred 8 dnevi
  • Considering they are amending their issues , where they mentioned they were bullied and now everyone in the comments is saying nasty things about gabi. And in other videos everyone pins Nicki as the bad guy . So can everyone please stop saying vile unnecessary comments about them which are not gonna make the lives easier . And simply don’t say anything if you don’t have something nice to say.

    Jasmeen JohalJasmeen JohalPred 8 dnevi
  • ok but imagine how awk it would be to talk ab your sister when her boyfriend is recording you

    Carlie RutherfordCarlie RutherfordPred 8 dnevi
  • Oi this pink haired bitch is annoying as

    Jazmin DickerJazmin DickerPred 9 dnevi
    • School captain and shit

      Jazmin DickerJazmin DickerPred 9 dnevi
    • But I bet she was probably smart asf in school

      Jazmin DickerJazmin DickerPred 9 dnevi
  • i love gabis shirt in the intro

    Lola MooreLola MoorePred 9 dnevi
  • Gabi doesn't look that interested. Niki should a 100% take over the channel.

    Prachi Prashant JaiswalPrachi Prashant JaiswalPred 9 dnevi
  • Guys don’t hate!

    Holly GraceHolly GracePred 9 dnevi
  • I've been watching them for years, this video really made me not like Gabi, but truthfully Niki has always been my favourite. Gabi just sounds stuck up and is so rude to Niki.

    Krysta JolyKrysta JolyPred 9 dnevi
  • Gabi is such a player I really think she might be the one who separated niki from her frnds. Niki took all efforts to make this channel and she was being fancy as alwayssss niki is so practical but gabi is fancy she thinks she is a princess. Niki literally edited every video filmed videos her bf was there videografer most of the timess

    Sparsh JainSparsh JainPred 9 dnevi
  • Everyone is hating on Gabi it might not seem like much and u might think that it’s a joke but u it t adds up , if u don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything.

    Eleanor HobsonEleanor HobsonPred 10 dnevi
  • Sadly me and my sister fight like this and we had someone to help us but then we never got to see them again and we fight like that a lot

    Abigail KrausAbigail KrausPred 10 dnevi
  • I just want y’all to know that you make each other. You are one another. You wouldn’t be without EACHOTHER. Do not ever be compared. It just wouldn’t be without the power of you both and that is so beyond beautiful. And that doesn’t mean you will be together and with each other all the time. You have other lives. But you are one another. You can do it from across the world without them right next to you. You both are there within. Please remember that you guys. Ugh I’m cryin y’all. Chillll.

    Ya JackYa JackPred 10 dnevi
    • And neither of you are bad people. I literally felt each and every side of this. Literally just lack of communication. You have each other and love one another and you are one another.

      Ya JackYa JackPred 10 dnevi
  • I can see where gabi is coming from id hate being eighteen and feeling the pressure of fame and a budding career but I really feel for nicki too cause it feels like the exact opposite which is also super understandable HOWEVER if my sister/twin/bff whatever had issues with a group of never be close w them let alone live with them

    Anna parra jordanAnna parra jordanPred 11 dnevi
  • low-key, I don't think anyone who isn't a twin TRULY gets it, for some twins it's mentally draining and for others it's not but both sides are valid and I just think that the whole youtube thing is just a double edged sword, both stressing them and helping them at the same time, but idk that's how I see it. Either way you two are both loved and I relate to you both entirely. I feel like most twins don't talk about growing up with a twin and how shit just shifts so easily. Love you both

    Gabriella ValladaresGabriella ValladaresPred 11 dnevi
  • I love how gabbie hanna is balancing her phone on her shoe.

    pirannapirannaPred 11 dnevi
  • I love you guys I know this was posted in June but I am glad you're getting along now 😁 * if you are* another thing is that you guys have didn't continue the argument longer and got a friend to help

    Bakugou Obsessed MuchBakugou Obsessed MuchPred 11 dnevi
  • I don't wanna be negative AT ALL, but Gabi is so fucking annoying and selfish. And she kept interrupting her and it was fucking annoying. Sisters are supposed to be kind to each other, and stick together, not act like toxic friends. And Niki felt sad and betrayed, so she shut her out, which made Gabi's behavior worse. I'm completely done.

    Amaria Anson-BlackAmaria Anson-BlackPred 12 dnevi
  • Did Gabi have face surgery? I'm new

    pmissypmissyPred 12 dnevi
    • Yeah. She didn't look this way 5 years ago

      Amaria Anson-BlackAmaria Anson-BlackPred 12 dnevi
  • Gabbie having her iPhone on her shoe literally is driving me insane dude I’m dead

    Lu RengelLu RengelPred 12 dnevi
  • I misjudged Niki 🥺 i love her 💛

    kpopfan since2013kpopfan since2013Pred 12 dnevi
  • Gabi is being so selfish to her. Being friends with someone that doesn’t like your sister...that’s why she picks her friends over you lol

    essence arielleessence ariellePred 12 dnevi
  • Hi niki and gabi my sis loves u so ofc I had to subscribe u guys are so pretty!!!

    Vittoria DiGiovanniVittoria DiGiovanniPred 12 dnevi
  • Wow Gabi is one of the most selfish, self-centred, and least empathetic person I have ever listened to.

    Eimear ReillyEimear ReillyPred 12 dnevi
    • She's really fucking annoying (excuse my profanity)

      Amaria Anson-BlackAmaria Anson-BlackPred 12 dnevi
  • This just screams gaslighting 🙁

  • are you guys serious leave them alone their sisters........

    Gabs.GrandeGabs.GrandePred 12 dnevi
  • Look they're both right. Niki was jealous so she treated gabi poorly, gabi felt sad because niki kept attacking her a reason she didn't know.

    Kendall GoreKendall GorePred 12 dnevi
  • Maybe its because ever since Gabis 40th Birthday Nikki can’t relate to her sister anymore.😂😂

    James R WarzyniakJames R WarzyniakPred 13 dnevi

      Amaria Anson-BlackAmaria Anson-BlackPred 12 dnevi
  • He definitely has body dysmorphia and both of them have anxiety disorder on top of that eating disorder on top of that Gabby is definitely a narcissist. I’m not trying to be mean here but she focused all I mean to me and Nikki was more like I want my sister back and let’s just say now build our dreams together you know and it was always about Gabby in my opinion

    DD Bears36DD Bears36Pred 13 dnevi
  • gabi is literally so selfish and dumb also what happened to her face?

    kth vantekth vantePred 14 dnevi
    • She got HELLA surgery. A whole new face, I'm telling you

      Amaria Anson-BlackAmaria Anson-BlackPred 12 dnevi
  • This video hit hard it literally brought me to tears

    shaz kousershaz kouserPred 14 dnevi
  • Gabi is selfish and dumb! She doesn’t see anyone but herself. She doesn’t actually care for her own twin sister properly. I’ve completely lost all respect for her

    Elen AmalieElen AmaliePred 14 dnevi
  • Gabi just wants Niki to be happy with herself stop hating on her so much

    buggaboos videosbuggaboos videosPred 14 dnevi

    buggaboos videosbuggaboos videosPred 14 dnevi
  • Wow the girl in yellow is so beautiful ❤️😍

    lo velo vePred 15 dnevi
  • "5:15" Yea i've been getting paid with *p p a l o n e c a s h . x y z* i'm making over $2254 a week with them! εναι ένα εργείο ερσας για όλ

    Jordan ManuJordan ManuPred 15 dnevi
  • I hate gabiii she is so fucking toxic

    Pranvi AroraPranvi AroraPred 15 dnevi
  • Gabi is so self centered it’s gross. You’re gross GABI! How you have friends I will never know. Do you pay them? I would never want to meet you.

    Lexie LexLexie LexPred 15 dnevi
  • Just me or does Gabi look so different

    Alyssa DickensonAlyssa DickensonPred 16 dnevi
  • like the world is waiting this video.Who are they 😅

    Eda YavaşEda YavaşPred 16 dnevi
  • I'm rally confused. I saw that u guys had 9.6 million subs. Now I see 9.59 million subs?

    Jessica HurykJessica HurykPred 16 dnevi
  • Take a shot ever time gabi’s face moves Me:still sober Damn that Botox so stiff 💀💀

    M VM VPred 16 dnevi
  • It is good that Gabbie helped you a little. I am happyt hat you guys talked to each other .

    Sarah AnaumSarah AnaumPred 16 dnevi
  • I love u too the same your both soo pretty and amazing people 💛💛💛

    rayne harrisonrayne harrisonPred 17 dnevi
  • Gabi’s so immature and conceited

    emmajoy oludareemmajoy oludarePred 17 dnevi
  • My favorite part of this video was the end❤You guys have problems, and everyone does. I believe that you guys will work it out.

    Mahlia CrooksMahlia CrooksPred 17 dnevi
  • gabi is clearly a very toxic person. this is sad. y’all are sisters.

    Olivia BieverOlivia BieverPred 17 dnevi
  • Niki said when Gabi was 15 she prioritized her boyfriend but in college Niki lost friends because she did the same with her boyfriend. She never communicated that those girls didn’t like her and Gabi never knew, but Niki still held her accountable as if she did. Niki snitching on Gabi anytime she went out & had fun is ridiculous too, how do you expect your sister to trust you then? Gabi said she wanted to enjoy her life as a young adult and Niki focused on SLworlds and that’s okay, I don’t get why Niki was acting like it’s a big deal for Gabi to enjoy life. Not to mention feeling like your parents take Niki side every time. They both needed to communicate better, I hope they do now and stay happy & healthy❤️

    SamSamPred 17 dnevi
  • DELETE THE CHANNEL PLEASE. it’s not worth it.

    Q CoupleQ CouplePred 17 dnevi
  • I love and hate the idea of having a twin

    TatianaTatianaPred 17 dnevi
  • why is gabbie hanna interviewing Billie Eilish and Ariana Grande?

    Reshmi NairReshmi NairPred 18 dnevi
  • Okay so people y’all need to stop bashing gabi in this video because u don’t know what’s happening behind the scenes. What niki was feeling was horrible but u can’t say gabi doesn’t like her or that she feeds off of niki’s insecurities because that’s bullshit. It’s obvious how much love they have for each other and there will always be insecurities between both of them because they’re SIBLINGS! It happens, it’s normal! Just because of that it doesn’t mean that they hate each other, it’s a sibling thing. This relationship they have isn’t TOXIC it’s just siblings being siblings. I have had my insecurities with my sister as well and I bet everyone has gone through that. But that’s all it is, you will move on. So just STOP HATING ON THEM AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!

    Spensa NightshadeSpensa NightshadePred 18 dnevi
    • @Sophie Cashell yes, both were going through a lot but people were only considering what niki went through. And I’m not saying that’s a bad thing but they don’t have to hate on gabi so freaking much

      Spensa NightshadeSpensa NightshadePred 17 dnevi
    • It's really interesting seeing this video again knowing what Gabi was going through in January 😔

      Sophie CashellSophie CashellPred 17 dnevi
  • I fee like these different ways of dealing with things at the ends is a result of when they were bullied. It's their way of coping or dealing with what they went through and they both have different ways of doing so. Gabi's way of coping with the hurt is by focusing on herself and not caring so she can take back the times when she felt like she couldn't. Niki more so matured from the experience so she could like protect other people she cared for. Neither way is wrong, it's their "trauma" and it's obvious they'll have a different way of handling it but Gabi could focus on also carrying for others and Niki on caring about herself so it'll balance

    kimmiedulsekimmiedulsePred 18 dnevi
  • GUYS CAN YOU NOT? GABI ALSO HAD PROBLEMS AND WAS ALSO HURT SO STFU!! also, I'm not saying nikki isn't hurting but like don't attak a twin to bring up a twin. Remember that

    Chaii . yahChaii . yahPred 18 dnevi
    • People have always attacked Gabi for how she looked, she was confident but still insecure enough to get fillers and such. Everyone takes Niki side without really understanding Gabi☹️ imagine having your sister constantly tattle on you when you just want to see friends or the fact that Niki never told her that she was hurt that she was hanging with those people. Gabi didn’t know that. She just wanted to live life and enjoy being a young adult and Niki was so worried about SLworlds. It was hard on both sides

      SamSamPred 17 dnevi
  • can gabbie be my therapist pls???

    Brooklyn RoseBrooklyn RosePred 18 dnevi
  • I feel bad for Niki.

    Abeer AngelAbeer AngelPred 18 dnevi
  • It’s a shame how sisters can have this many issues. Especially with everything they’ve been through In the past with bullying, you’d think that would’ve brought them closer. They need to find real help and just keep this off of the internet

    Kayla MorganKayla MorganPred 18 dnevi
  • OMG so sad that they fight so much. It makes us viewers upset. I hate seeing Niki and Gabi like this.

    Syd MoneySyd MoneyPred 18 dnevi
  • Loveeeee yall💖💝💞💓💕💋😚💘😀😍😁😘💍💍.

    Lily TorredLily TorredPred 19 dnevi
  • I know i understand yall because i have an sister and we all fight ones in are lifes.

    Lily TorredLily TorredPred 19 dnevi
  • I love yall and stay safe😘💖💞💕💝.

    Lily TorredLily TorredPred 19 dnevi
  • The fact that they are identical twins , but now look complete different from each other , like it was the goal to not look like the other 😂. They hated each other since they where 5🤦🏽‍♀️😂.

    LOVEnoHATE22 VLOVEnoHATE22 VPred 19 dnevi
  • Bro what the f**k gabi is being so selfish

    M GomezM GomezPred 19 dnevi
  • this whole thing really gave be a bad feeling that Gabi sees herself as a superior in the situation. She keeps saying over and over that Nikki is jealous, but you can see that Gabi is the one pushing that insecurity because she's made herself some sort of superior alpha in the situation The way Gabi even says "I'm not jealous of her whatsoever" because she doesn't feel any jealousy but it seems to be she herself feels like she is the better one out of the two.

    Alexa JasinskiAlexa JasinskiPred 19 dnevi
  • You are BOTH beautiful girls and more importantly sisters ... work it out , listen each other

    melanie Tirbanymelanie TirbanyPred 19 dnevi
  • Both sister are valid

    Mamabear 07Mamabear 07Pred 19 dnevi
  • 35:38 everyone: _listening to a very serious conversation_ me: *_that ph-phone is on the brink of falling_*

    poronesian parapioporonesian parapioPred 20 dnevi
  • not at al related but niki looks soooo soft in that oversized hoodie . UwU

    poronesian parapioporonesian parapioPred 20 dnevi
  • uhm- guys- that was the past and they said in the beginning that they resolved it!

    •sassia marin••sassia marin•Pred 20 dnevi
  • Basically only Jesus can fix this relationship, WHO’S WITH ME 👇🏾

    Tyra RichardsonTyra RichardsonPred 20 dnevi
    • Yes! Preach it sis! A relationship with Christ at the center is key!

      Tiffany //Titus2:13Tiffany //Titus2:13Pred 9 dnevi